Every person has their own unique way of how the perceive the term ‘understanding’. Some will say the understand you, just to brush off from the conversation and others will actually mean they get what you are saying. But don’t jump to assumptions that someone doesn’t care because how they show you they understand isn’t to your satisfaction. This doesn’t mean that they don’t care. They just care to the best of their capacity of knowing how to show it.
We all experience life situations and respond differently. How we react to situations stems from what we learned in our early childhood. Without understanding where the beliefs and behaviour comes from, we may react the same in our adulthood. When we connect with someone, we need to be open towards acknowledging that we may not be on the same page of understanding. And that’s okay. This is where communication is very important.
Just because someone says they understand, yet their actions don’t reflect how you consider understanding to be, doesn’t mean they don’t care. Allow yourself to express your emotions freely and allow yourself to be open to understanding the other persons perception of their behaviour. You never know what wisdom may surface if you look from the lens of another persons perception.
Awaken To Your Souls Truth.